Please enjoy this guest post from Karla. They have quite the story:
Our journey to adoption began long before my husband and I even knew each other. I remember vividly watching the Sunday night 20/20 expose on the orphanages in Romania and thinking, “I want to do something, I want to adopt one of those kids!” And I set my mind then that someday, some way I would adopt a child who needed a family. When Mike and I met, we discovered that both of us had a heart for adoption and knew that someday, someway our family would grow through adoption.
With the seed planted deep in our hearts, we began the journey of our married life. Being the “wise and smart” young Christians that we were, we planned to have three biological children and then adopt a baby girl from China. We had it all mapped out.
Our first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. We were heartbroken but not deterred and not long after our doctor cleared us to try again we were pregnant a second time. Our daughter Bethany was born in 1999. My water broke at 23 weeks and I was on hospital bed rest for seven weeks. Bethany was born at 30 weeks gestation and spent five weeks in the NICU. In 2002 we suffered another miscarriage. And in 2004 welcomed our first son, Josiah. What a joy it was to have a healthy complication free pregnancy! Two years later we were thrilled to be expecting another son. At 35 weeks gestation I developed pre-eclampsia and HELLP syndrome and our 3rd child, Judah was born prematurely. Thankfully, Judah was healthy and did not have to go into the NICU.
We had walked an interesting, and not so easy, road to our biological children. God is indeed faithful and we praise Him and thank Him for the children He has granted us. Our journey of five pregnancies and only one full term healthy baby made it even clearer to us that God would use adoption to grow our family.
In 2008, an extended family member experienced an unplanned pregnancy. Adoption was never in the mother’s mind, but seeing her situation and praying for wisdom for her and for her baby brought adoption back to the forefront of our minds and hearts. God used that circumstance to flip the switch and we were ready to pursue adoption.
While we had planned, all those years, to adopt from China, by 2008 the wait for a healthy baby was simply too long. Our oldest child was now nine and we wanted our children to be closer in age than the wait for China would allow. And seeing reports and news stories about the conditions of the orphanages in the former Soviet countries really gave us a heart for those children. We decided to pursue an adoption from the small central Asian county of Kyrgyzstan.
At the time that we started our adoption from Kyrgyzstan, an adoption of a healthy infant boy would take less than one year. We stepped out in faith. We knew that God was calling us to adoption and we knew that God always provides when He calls His people. We would be utterly dependent on God and His provision for the finances of the adoption. We had our tax return and the Bush tax stimulus and I was finishing my last year of teaching school and could apply my last four month’s salary to the cost, but that still left us short by several thousand dollars.
We had heard of LifeSong for Orphans through various ministries and applied for a matching grant. We had several friends and family who wanted to contribute to our adoption expenses, but we wanted them to have a means to give that would provide accountability for the funds and allow them the tax benefits that donations to non-profit entities carries.
Kyrgyzstan was the first of the former Soviet states to declare independence. They are a proud and beautiful people. And we have fallen in love with their culture. And in August 2008, we fell in love with a little Kyrgyz baby boy. We had received our referral for a five month old baby boy! We chose the name Asa James and flew to Kyrgyzstan in September 2008 to meet Asa.
Shortly after we returned home from meeting and bonding with Asa James, adoptions in Kyrgyzstan came to a halt. A moratorium on international adoption has been in place since February 2009. We, along with sixty five other American families, still wait to bring our child home.
It has been difficult to say the least. But God has been faithful to us and has brought so many people to stand beside us in the fight to bring Asa home.
And with the moratorium in Kyrgyzstan, God was not finished calling us to step out in faith. He was calling us to complete another adoption while we waited for Asa. He called us back to China. To the China special needs program.
While waiting for Asa, we learned a lot about the Waiting Child program in China. With one biological child who has profound special needs, we did not think we should adopt another child who would have lifelong needs. But we learned that so many children wait for families in China (and other countries) that have health or other issues that are very treatable in the United States. And they are certainly not lifelong needs.
We began our China Waiting Child adoption in January 2010. With the matching grant and friend/family contributions from LifeSong for Orphans, we had prepaid all of our agency fees for our Kyrgyz adoption. Since that adoption was now on hold, we had a large credit with our agency. The credit was just enough to cover the fees for the China program. We finished our home study in record time and began assembling our dossier. In February we got the call. We had a referral for a beautiful baby boy! Ezra Joseph was 10 months old and had been born with a cleft lip and palate. While our hearts were guarded, having pictures of little Ezra only spurred us on to get our dossier finished as quickly as possible!
We traveled to China in September 2010 and met little Ezra on September 19, 2010. He became legally ours the next day! Ezra is simply a delight and he fits right in with our crazy family! His cleft lip was repaired in China and we had his palate repaired last December. We have since had one more surgery to fix a small fistula in his palate. And he has done wonderfully. I was afraid of what the surgeries and hospital stays would do to the attachment we had formed, but our bond has only gotten stronger. While we wish he did not have to endure painful surgeries and procedures, God has used those things to knit our hearts and make our family stronger.
We are in awe of how God used the journey to adopt ONE child to bring us two sons. One of them naps in his crib right now; the other still waits for us."
Thank you Karla! What a beautiful story! And we will definitely keep your family in our prayers as you wait for little Asa to come home!
Friday, April 13, 2012 at 10:20AM 
