Family Friday: Kory and Megan
This Family Friday is a special one for me because it involves the addition of my 3 year old niece, Suhn Mikayla Rui to our family.
My sister Megan and her husband Kory decided to adopt special needs from China and Lifesong had the privilege of helping bring Suhn home through fund raising support. Here Megan tells a little bit about how God led them through the adoption process:
Frankly, if God had told me 3 years ago that I would be parenting a child with cerebral palsy, I would have freaked out. Thankfully, God didn’t throw us in head first. Instead he laid down a bread crumb and asked us to follow, one tiny step at a time.
We’ve been asked many times over our adoption process questions like “why China?”, “why now?” and “why special needs?” The answers do not come easy. I can go into logical explanations about how China’s adoption program seemed to fit us better, or how the long wait times made us start the adoption process earlier than we originally thought, or how Kory’s job working with kids with special needs made it seem like the obvious thing to do…
While these reasons make sense and allow me to contribute to the conversation, the more accurate answer is this, “It felt like the right thing to do.” There were many times we asked ourselves the same questions we were being asked, “Why China?,” Why now?” But through the questioning we never felt compelled to stop or change course so we kept moving forward. The cool thing is, the further we traveled down our adoption road, the more confirmations and open doors we received silencing most of our doubts. By the time we held Suhn for the first time we knew we were right where we were supposed to be.
I love the thought of God leaving us a trail of bread crumbs to follow... step by step. Thanks for sharing, Megan!
Recently, Kory and Megan put together a video to send back to the foster home Suhn lived at in China, and we're going to share it with you!
You can find out more on Megan's blog, here.
Reader Comments (2)
Leslie, I'm bawling like a baby. What a great video. Your sister's family is such a beautiful picture of the gospel.
Praise the Lord!! I LOVE adoption!
Oh Jenn! You have yourself a pretty cool little family too! :)
I agree though, I think the video turned out great!